Sunday, October 19, 2014

My 5 AM Thoughts

While scanning through my notes on my phone I found this piece. I can't remember why I wrote this. The date says it was written August 8,2014 5:38AM. Yeah, AM! I was possibly drunk (not possibly i guess but "probably" would be the right term LOL) or maybe day dreaming that time but whichever state I'm in that moment, upon browsing I thought this might be worthy of your time. So here it goes. 

Don't make other people use your skills for their own sake, instead, use it for your own advantage and build the dreams of your life. In your work phase, don't aim to replace the supervisors or even the vice presidents. Remember, if you believe in your self and know your worth, you can be the owner or might as well call yourself "THE BIG BOSS". 

Karma's a BITCH! if so, why not drive it close to you? Its an easy 1+1=2 algorithm. If you want money, give out some cash! If you want to be slapped with rock-bottom experiences, be rude all the time. 

There's no such thing as "no choice". For everything that has, and will take place in your life, you have no one to blame but yourself. If you want something good will happen, trust & listen to your inner self and by this you'll make better decisions than yesterday. Remember, if you failed once it's excusable but if it happened again and again burn that thing inside you that feeds failure.

No one is in charge of your life but you yourself. If you want to live your dream remind yourself that both your hands stir the wheel of your life so make sure to be good at it!

Cut the rope between you and those weight-bearing people. Their damn load is way to heavy for us to carry. They will do whatever it takes to suck you down into their own bizarre abyss world. Look around. Can you identify them already?
First few steps are the hardest. You're going to be very vulnerable to your environment. Close your ears so you won't hear people laughing about what you're doing. These people are financially illiterate that they can't comprehend such things. Just focus on what you're doing. Be deaf! First few times might be hard but the harder it gets the bigger the outcome will be. 

In order for you to have the drive to fulfill that dream, you should know how it feels like to be at the bottom. When you realize you cannot live with that kind of life, then your inner drive begins to flare up and the show starts. 

Start young, reap early, enjoy the fruits of your labor when your body still can! Who wants to work when they're 75?! Set a goal. Give yourself time to work. Give yourself time to enjoy, enjoy, and enjoy life.

I hope, somehow, you got something out of this and share it to those who are willing to learn. Till the next post!

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Saturday, July 12, 2014

TREND ALERT: Football Jerseys

Hello dear readers! How are you guys doing? Here’s a comeback outfit post I wanted to share with all of you. In here, I’ve decided to wear something related to the recent World Cup in Brazil. I hope you will get something from this post. Happy reading!

About the look:
This look is inspired by the football game. Since football gained a lot of attention recently due to the world cup, I have noticed viewers from the arena wear something like the players' uniform. These people, especially women, usually wear an over sized top with huge prints of numbers or quote. What makes this top extra sporty is the stripe design located on both sleeves, like what we usually see in football uniforms. Here’s my own version of the football chic look. 

For the bottom, you can either choose to wear short shorts, like I did, or perhaps a skinny jeans will look good too. The goal is to project a tough (by wearing the top) yet chic look. You don’t want to end up wearing a loose bottom because you’ll surely look like a rapper so better choose something girly for your bottom.

Now we’re down to the footwear. To tell you honestly, I’d prefer wearing flats over heels. It’s just that I’m more used to it and I think I can do just anything when I have them. With this look I suggest you to wear either boots, or a black deadly stiletto! If you choose to wear a stiletto, I swear it will definitely make the entire look a total head turner! But in my case, I chose to wear my favorite flat boots.

Of course we must not forget to accessorize. The best accessory for this would be an oversize gold necklace that has a sexy aura or if it bugs you to have those necklaces, them a ball cap will do too! Instead of having the usual top with bold numbers in it and a statement cap, I chose to divert both. I prefer the digits into my cap and a statement on my top, to be a little distinct from the others.  

No woman forgets her shades on a sunny day. My makeup was bold, since I focused more on my lips. My eyes were very bare so I decided to grab my shades on to cover up my eyes. Just choose any sporty shaped shades like aviators or wayfarer or the like.

i look stupid here LOL nevermind this photo
ohh i almost forgot! I really love my lippie here. It's Lime Crime in Wicked shade. They're matte and won't wear off immediately. I love them since they're two shades darker than red which means it gave the look more attitude.  Got mine from an IG shop @thebeautyjunkieph. Just look for Rizza Tan 09178021711.

Even though I have not discussed yet the background, I know that the car behind me got your attention too! Well, first of all, let me clarify things out. That BMW Z3 is not mine, rather my boyfriend, Gilbert, owns that. Hahaha

Top: Terranova
Shorts: Mango
Shades: SM Accessories
Cap: Terranova
Shoes: Converse
Lipstick: Lime Crime in "Wicked"
from IG @theneautyjunkieph

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Monday, July 07, 2014

how to spot an authentic KISS Snail White & Whitening Collagen CreamMask

Hello everyone! It has been a long time of hiatus, but here I am now. I have so many things to share to you guys that you'll surely love, especially ladies and also vain men, you know, girl stuffs hahaha It's a fact that almost all of us in this generation are very particular regarding how we look. Often times, when we experience pimple break-outs, our self esteem quickly drops down. Well, blame it all to the MEDIA, who actually holds the highest percentage of influence. Anyway, now that we are into this "modern society" where our self-esteem is greatly affected by our looks, might as well deal with it, only if you want to DEAL WITH IT. There are still a few, of course, which are left behind and still conformed by the ancient beliefs and traditions such as: no make up, beauty products or anything artificial should ever touch their skin. Well, this post is for those who don't care what other people say regarding how vain they are using 100 different beauty products and on spending 2 hours facing the mirror, talking to pimple scars and acnes. hahahaha Though I personally have nothing against them. For me, it's just a matter of personal preference about beauty. Just to clarify things out. LOL

Today I'm going to share to you how to spot an original KISS Skincare Products. Be careful from the fake ones, for they might damage or worsen your face. The rave about Kiss' products began when Instagram online sellers started to bring the product available here in our country, the Philippines. It originally came from Thailand. As we all know, most Thai people project a silky-smooth porcelain skin and most of them agree that this happened to be the reason behind it. In this post I will share my personal unboxing of SNAIL WHITE MOISTURIZER & KISS CREAM MASK. I will give you techniques on how to spot an original one so that you guys will know you purchased the right product. You don't want to end up buying a cheap product with so much lead and mercury content in it right? so here it is.  
this is what the original box looks like
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Friday, January 24, 2014

chasing the sun

Where to start... Where to start... it's been a while, oh not a while, rather, it's been a veeerryyy looooong time since I last updated this blog so I somehow forgot how to start this thing. mmm.. yeah right. Greetings! Hi there! Thank you so much for wasting your time, again, by browsing my blog hahahaha I know you miss me and I miss you big time too! Let’s not be sentimental here, instead, we should rejoice! Whooot! Finally after 59890 years of long wait I finally had the urge to blog again. Are you wondering why I’m pushing thru with my blog? Don’t you worry coz’ I’ll tell you guys why.
I have gone through many things the past few months. Nonetheless, I make sure you guys will be updated through this post and the succeeding ones. We'll take this Stephanie-by-stephanie or step-by-step rather LOL (gosh my weirdness in blogging never changed) First, I’m sure many of you have been wondering what I look like now that I'm a mother. Speculations that I’ve become a “Moma Whale” is … a BIG HOAX! Well, this is to give you a glimpse of the new me. MILF! Hahaha Just in case you don’t know the meaning of MILF, just disregard that word (R-18)
Of course all of you have been wondering what I’m really up to right now and why am I so busy that I never updated this blog for 59890 years? Well to tell you the truth, I lost track updating because I was chasing the sun and I can’t seem to get near it! Just kidding. I was building something. Something only I, myself, could construct. MY DREAMS. (Singing ala Adele: should I give up? Or should I just keep chasing pavements? hahaha) I’ve always believed that the first step is the hardest step, you know why? Because you can’t just land a step anywhere you want. You don’t want your foot to land on a crap! You should land it on a SOLID stairs, a staircase that will lead you to somewhere you really wished to be in at the end. It’s the hardest step because when you think of what you want, you have so many things in mind and you can’t even think of the best dream you ever wanted for yourself. But hey, here’s what I have to tell you. PAUSE for a while. CLOSE your eyes. THINK of yourself. FEEL your heart’s desire. BREATHE in the positivity. EXHALE the bad vibes away. OPEN your eyes. DO IT! JUST DO IT!
I know what you’re thinking right now. What if bla bla bla. How about my dad or mom? Here’s my question for you. Who are you living for? (ASIDE OF COURSE IF YOU BELIEVE IN GOD). Are you living for your parents’ wants? Or other people’s expectations? HELL NO! You get to live once and you should make the most out of it. Live a life the way you want it to be! Live a life full of happiness not regrets. LIVE YOUR DREAM LIFE. Always bear that in mind. I would like you to do this. Each day imagine a little bird on their shoulder, and they ask your birdie, “If I do this, will this lead me to a life the way I dreamed of it?” If you do that, you will never go wrong. One day, you will be amazed you are on the right track, the track that leads you to your own definition of success, whatever form it may be.
Was that kinda heavy to ingest? I think that’s rather something you need to ponder on for the night. I hope somehow, in my comeback, I inspired you. Some people advised me to make my blog post shorter since I usually have long blog posts. I told myself, I won’t do that! I’d rather make long blog posts that might serve as an inspiration or simply touch someone in any form than stealing time from others without even touching their lives. I don’t know what you’re going through right now, but I hope you are on the right track. I hope you, too, are busy. Busy fulfilling a life you dreamed of having. So I guess I need to end this post. I can now smell my yummy cupcakes in the oven. Need to get them out! Till my next posts.

the glitterati

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Thursday, September 05, 2013

every girl wants to be a princess in her own fairy tale story

Hi guys! It's been a while and I miss you big time! I'm back...AGAIN... and I'm not doing an outfit post today (maybe on my next blog entry). These past few months have been really very heartbreaking for many of my friends. So, I decided to write something about my stand regarding LOVE. This post, as a woman (am I a woman? oh yes. i gave birth months ago. so I'm a woman. Kidding lol), will be for my fellow Ladies out there. Gents, you can still read and get some ideas on how to treat your partners. Hey! I'm no expert in this field but I think my ideas are worth sharing. 
PS: Not everything I will say is based on my own experience. I'm going to spare my very own love life here. LOL enjoy reading!

"LOVE" is a very broad word that leads to hundreds of different doors. If asked to define, honestly, I think I need a week or two to really think of the right words to properly give its meaning without murdering the word itself!  Well, I assume you girls already know what it means? You may define it different from others but I know the feeling, that wonderful feeling is the same with the rest. So let's take it from there, okay? 

Almost every girl around this planet, regardless of age, race or whatever differences we have, dreams of meeting her prince charming someday. Isn't it nice to wake up next to someone who will kiss you despite your morning breath? Or perhaps tell you you're the most beautiful woman in his eyes the moment you wake up (with your haggard morning look). A man who would never give up on you despite those over-used "blame it to my hormones" reason. A brave man who would face your parents without fear and tell them how much he loves you. A perfect man who would kiss you on your forehead and tell you every day that he is the luckiest man to have you in his life. That Mr. Right who would hold on your hand and never let go until it finally wrinkles. But hey! Is this man still alive today?

Finding that man we describe a while ago is nearly impossible today. I said NEARLY. Just nearly and not totally. Yes! I still believe there is this man out there for you. He might be just a little bit busy preparing himself for your future. The thing here is, "Mr. Prince Charming" still exist today. So what now? Ladies, we must learn to set that STANDARD and hold on to it no matter what happens. If you really want to be with someone who will never leave you all throughout the years then in the first place set the standard. A boy will try to persuade you but it takes Mr. Right to strive harder than the rest and wait for you, no matter how long, just to hear that beautiful YES! If you set your standards high, others who are not worthy enough will get tired amidst their venture and vanish. And those who are worthy will stand and continue to climb higher just to be with you. 

If you're currently in a relationship that's not an assurance already that that man is Mr. Prince Charming. If he passed "the test" then one point for him, but it doesn't end there. He needs thousands of points to prove to you that he really is Mr. P.C. Let me make this short. If you're not happy with him or if you cannot see a future with him then tell him and make a decision to end that relationship. It may sound rude but hey there's no sense in making the relationship last longer if in the first place one is not happy. It basically defeats one important purpose in love and that is to make your partner happy for the rest of her life. Also, if you decide to do it, then it's actually an early prevention for something like third-party issues or things alike. It'll be very devastating to know if your partner is dating with someone while he's still into you. You don't want to be caught up in a situation where he calls you babe instead of honey. Or worse, greet you happy anniversary when it's not your special anniv day.

Now, if you're in a state of being single AGAIN, because of a fake Mr. P.C., don't you worry! As long as you believe that the real Mr. P.C. exist then no problem. I always use what I learned in the book "The Secret by: Rhonda Byrne", think without a doubt of the things you want to happen and it will happen. Remember ladies, our mind is the most powerful organ we have. It can control anything so use it to attract Mr. P.C! After a breakup, allow yourself to go on to the grieving process and after that, MOVE ON! If you want to be happy, move on. You may say that you can't because you still love that fake Mr. P.C, but I assure you a day will come and you'll realize that you deserve someone better, the real Mr. P.C and not a parody. Well, having a past relationship with someone will ALWAYS teach you something and will lead you to a better you. So don't dwell too much in the past, it's really a waste of time. TRUST ME, it's a waste of time. Move on. Walk straight ahead. Learn from the past and use it to strengthen your future. Who knows the next minute you may bump in Mr. P.C.! 

Love knows no time. It may come late or even too soon! Never mind that three month rule. Sorry but I'm not sorry. I mean it. Ladies, don't care what others will tell you. As long as you know you're not doing something fishy or stepping on someone else' life, go on. What others will say should not affect you. ALL OF US will be judged by people, just don't give a shit! Besides, it's that Mr. P.C you're going to deal with for the rest of your life and you don't need everyone's go signal for that. Be open for dating. Date all you can. That's the advantage for us girls; we can date all we want. There's nothing wrong with dating unless you exceed to the boundaries of it. Trust your female instincts. It works most of the time!

So there you go, I hope it helped you. Share your love concerns in the comment box below and I'll try to give a quick response to all of you. 

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Monday, July 01, 2013

fashion + motherhood

Hi guys! It has been a while since I'm away but here's the good news, THE GLITTERATI IS BACK AGAIN and she's ready to pull out another look! To those who don't know yet, I just gave birth about a month ago, 41 days way back to be exact. Other women who gave birth to lovely angels tend to forget themselves in the middle of their motherhood career. I have nothing against taking care of their babies all the time but what bothers me a lot is that most of them tend not to be mindful of themselves anymore. Contrary to what others believe, I say that fashion and motherhood can go together at the same time. It's just like adding up another subject in college where you exert an additional effort for you to pass. So to all moms out there, don't forget to take good care of yourself in the middle of taking care of your little ones! Proud mom here. Anyway, I will no longer take much of your time. I may be a little bit late on updating you, nevertheless here it is.  


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Tuesday, June 25, 2013

Top Ten Health Benefits Walking Provides Your Pet

everyone knows that a daily exercise is good for our health but little did others know that it's also good for our dogs. Others may find it an additional load in their backs but this responsibility is included in taking care of our beloved dogs. I think it's better if one would treat this exercise an activity that both of you can enjoy and bond. Now here are ten health benefits i got from petMD that you can provide to your dog just by walking it regularly.

1. Helps Keep Pets Healthy
This one is a no-brainer. Exercise is good for us all. It provides many health benefits that include keeping your pet healthy, agile, and limber.

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